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Although the bride is the Star of the wedding, most brides usually lead the destination wedding planning herself, while most fiancé passively participate. Which sums up the start of wedding stress and frustrations during the wedding planning process.
At the same time, since the bride is the Star of the event, it is critical for her to take care of herself. So on her wedding day, she can be as free as she can be and as she walk down the aisle, her family, friends and fiancé literately drop their jaws because of how beautiful she is.
As the list of task to do, seems to be growing everyday, and as concerns, concerns, and stress creeps in, it is easy to lose sight on your desire out of your wedding. The best way to overcome the experience of overwhelm and stress during your wedding planning, is to identify the source of your stress and overwhelm. If you do not look into where the stress is coming from, you will have little or no chance to eliminate it.
So what may be causing the stress?
- The amount of task needs to get done and handle with deadlines approaching
- Arguments and tension with your fiancé
- Second thoughts with the person you are marrying and the fear of the commitment of marriage
- Concerns about the Destination Wedding Cost
- Concerns about financial situation after marriage
- Frustration with the service providers involve in planning a destination wedding
- Frustration with family and in-law's expectations of how a wedding is "Supposed to be" in their eyes
- Frustration with friends and co-workers while inviting them
It is not limited to the list above and that is already a lot going on, so it is no surprise that most brides experience stress and overwhelm while doing their destination wedding planning. If any of these concerns and frustrations lingers in the back of your head on your wedding day, no matter how hard you pretend to be fine, it will definitely show and you will not look the best that you can possibly be. The good news is, you are not alone. Julia and I had every concern listed above and more, that I mention earlier when planning a destination wedding and by nature, wedding planning is stressful. So you are not the only one experiencing this.
I invite you to try on the idea of taking advantage of your destination wedding planning, as an opportunity for you to expand and grow personally and take the quality of your relationship with your fiancé to the next stage. This will set you up for a great start of a new chapter in your life as a pair of happy, loving newlyweds.
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Source by Brian Kwong
