Swap in: Other meaningful roles for loved ones

“Forgo the wedding  party! You’d be surprised at how much bouquets and boutonnieres can cost, and you won’t have to worry about buying  thank-you  gifts for them or possibly paying for their attire, accessories, or hair and makeup. You’ll also be saving  your friends a ton of money (and they will love you for it). If you still want to incorporate those people into the wedding  somehow, consider having  them do a reading  during  the ceremony or  give a toast at the reception,” say the pros from Color Pop Events .

If you don’t want to completely skip the bridal party, consider downsizing. “The fewer girls you have, the less stress you have, and the less you will spend on flower bouquets, bridesmaid gifts, makeup/hair, etc.,” Janik says.

Related: How to Include Loved Ones (Who Aren’t in the Bridal Party)