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For the bride who is looking for something a little more modest – ok a lot more modest – the choices are few and far between. There was a time when not letting it all hang out was valued far more than it is today. Since there are few designers who cater to the modest crowd choices are few. But for the creative bride there are things that can be made to make sure you get the dress you desire, and make it a stunning one at that.
The modest dresses out there have the tension of making the bride look boxy – almost shapeless. This is too bad since this is not the goal of the modest bride, she just does not want to be over exposed. I suggest having one made by an accomplished seamstress. Finding a good seamstress might take a little effort, but the end result will be something fabulous.
Looking for inspiration – look to 'The Sound of Music', Maria's satin, long trained gown was absolutely gorgeous! With all the classic elements – what bride would not look stunning in this gown. How about 'My Fair Lady' – any slim bride would be amazing in the white sheath that Audrey Hepburn was. Speaking of Audrey – she wore a dazzling short stunner in 'Funny Face' – go short or make a longer version.
Women who have made history by walking down the aisle in a stunning gown are – Jaclyn Kennedy, Princess Grace, and English princesses, all worn stunning gowns that were very modest. Copying their gowns, or making a version of it, would guarantee you a really superb dress with a wow factor.
How about wearing a gown that has been in the family? Many brides who do this carry on a tradition that stands the test of time. They look stunning and elegant and there is something about tradition that makes a wedding very special – very personal.
Remaking a gown is an option that would allow you updates, without having to be over exposed. Making a lace or satin shrag, jacket or even full length jacket can be used as a cover up over a gown. Building up and exposed bodice could also be made to make an improper gown more wearable.
You might also find that travel might give you more opportunities to find a modest gown. The US might be more immodest, but other countries may have more healthy boundaries relating attire in the worship place. Also bridal salons that cater to Mormons or Observant Jews may give you more of a selection.
Looking at vintage clothing or antique shops, or even museums can help you either find a gown, or get inspiration for your own design. Olde World designs also offer creative designs that have appeal for today.
Always remember that this is your day and that wearing what you want – even if it's not their style is perfectly acceptable. If you've always wanted Princess Diana's puffed sleeves – have them, this is your day and you will show others that you do not travel with the pack. I find I enjoy going to a wedding that is not the same old thing, and I appreciate a bride and groom who have some decorum and a more respectful approach to their wedding.
Sometimes if designers realize that there are women who want a more modest gown they will offer more styles. Until then, use your creativity and you will have a stunning, awe inspiring gown for your special day.
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Source by Denise Dunn
