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You want your big day to be perfect. However, you know deep down it will not. Why? Of course, it's an Asian wedding. By Asian here we mean Indian / or Pakistani background. Everything in an Asian wedding is done on a grander scale. Everything has to be of the top. Even the guest list is normally twice or even three times longer than any other wedding. Due to these large numbers involved in everything the chances of the wedding being disorganized are very high.

However, no need to stress. Here is a guide to planning and organizing your Asian wedding. If you follow our advice there is a high chance of your day going smoothly. So all you have to do on your big day is relax, enjoy and smile for the cameras! This introduction and our follow up articles will discuss some of the issues relating to organizing Asian weddings.

Some of the key aspects of your wedding that you should think about are:

o How many functions you will be or organizing for the wedding (Mehndi, Valima, Reception)
o How much time you have and how you are going to manage it.
o Your budget
o How many guests you are inviting

So, how do you begin to even start planning to organize anything?

The key word here is organizing. The way everything turns out on the day really depends on this term 'organizing' and this organizing has to come from you. Do not expect it from anyone else. At the end of the day it's your wedding day- the more effort you put into the organizing the better the result. Remember, this is not any wedding but an Asian one. Always be prepared for the unexpected. Attention to detail is critical.

Organizing in Asian wedding refers to a much wider definition in terms of not only organizing the actual events of your wedding but also organizing the usually large number of relatives and friends that are always too eager to help.

Usually a wedding is about the bride and groom but in Asian background weddings this usually is also about the large number of relatives from both side parents and not forgetting the in-laws. You need to ensure that they are organized in the sense that they know what role they have to play on your wedding day to make it perfect. This is a larger issue in itself- how do you make your wedding perfect as well as ensuring that everyone else around you happy. For example, be prepared to address issues such as relatives not getting along with each other, petty arguments etc. However, do not stress about these issues too much as some simple advice from us will ensure that these problems can be avoided from the start.

This article is an overview of what kind of things you should be thinking about when you start organizing your Asian wedding. Many of the points mentioned in this article will be discussed in more detail in our follow-up articles. Finally, remember that this is your wedding day. Do not worry too much about minor issues. Try your best to enjoy every minute of it as these are the memories that will stay with you forever!

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Source by Asha Farooq