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Congratulations, you've just become engaged. After the initial euphoria the decision to commit yourself to the one you love, sometime afterwards comes the realization that you have a wedding to plan, for some this may be a daunting prospect, after all its not everyday you plan a wedding.

First of all you need to let everyone know about your good news, obviously your immediate family and friends can easily be informed, but do not forget those friends or family you have not seen for a while. A good idea is to send a personalized card to make the announcement, or you could send an e-card or share your news on your internet social networking site, it's a great way to spread the good news.

An engagement party is a great idea and obviously is entirely optional, this usually takes place within a couple of months from the engagement, but if you are planning a longer engagement it can be several months later, just make sure the party is closer to the engagement than it is to the wedding date.

The engagement party can be as formal or informal as you like, you may want to send invoices; but be aware that anyone actually invited to the party will probably expect an invitation to your wedding as well.

One of the most important considerations when wedding planning is to choose a date for the wedding. First check potential dates with your immediate family to avoid any clashes, just in case the father of the bride has the holiday of a life time booked at the same time as your special day. Be aware of public holidays, as very often potential guests may have already made plans for these dates.

Obviously if you plan to have a large guest list it will be impossible to arrange a date that is convenient for everyone, but you may also consider if your dates consider with any other events, such as religious festivals, days of remembrance and major sporting events . Be aware of quirky dates, you might like the idea of ​​marrying on April fools day or at Halloween or you may not, other notable quirky dates for example are 9th October 2011, 9.10.11 or various other sequential numbers which you may wish to avoid or you may actually prefer those dates to add more significance to your day.

Once the date is set, you can then start to plan your other arrangements, the most important will be your wedding venue. The options are essentially infinite and the choice is entirely personal, the most important factor to consider is your budget and the amount of guests you intend to invite. it's a good idea to visit potential venues for a meal before you consider making a booking, you can see for yourself the standard of food, service and the facilities. Do not be pressured into making a decision, but at the same time do not leave this too late either, the top ends often book up well in advance.

When your venue is booked, you will need to book a photographer, there are a myriad of photographers and the decision can be difficult. It is often beneficial to approach photographer who has been recommended by a friend, and its especially useful to view a portfolio before making a decision. A professional engagement photo session is a great way to become familiar with you photographer, ensuring you are happy with their work and you will also have some great photos of your engagement, these could also be used to personalize your wedding invitations.

Before you become to traveled away with your arrangements, its recommended that you set a budget for all your wedding expenses, there are some great budget planners available online that will help you manage your finances, ensuring that the great event does not cause any unnecessary debt.

There are many other things to consider, but its never too early to start looking for you wedding dress, its important you look and feel beautiful for your special day. Visit wedding shops and browse the internet for all the latest ideas, it's a big decision, so do not be rushed. Not forgetting the groom, bridesmaids, best man, father and mother of the bride and page boys, there are many outlets which specialize in men's wedding attire too.

Start your guest list early, as there will be important decisions regarding who invite, your guest list may be determined by your budget, but it will take a lot of thought. Consultation with other close family members about the guest list is advisable, to ensure the day is harmonious.

If you feel overwhelmed by the prospect of planning your wedding, consider employing a wedding planner who can assist you to ensure your day is the happiest of your life.

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Source by Louise Owen