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One thing is for certain. If you're planning a wedding you're probably going to be stressed out. And why not? It's one of the biggest events in a person's life and everyone wants it to go perfectly.
There are tons of details to attend to, suggestions from friends and family members, delegation family issues to deal with and obvious differences of opinions among those helping to plan the wedding – to name just a few. Sometimes the budget gets strained adding even more stress. So, is there anything that can be done about it?
Well, yes and no. There's probably no way to eliminate all the stress of planning a major event like a wedding, but here are some suggestions.
Start planning as early as possible to give yourself plenty of time to attend to all the details. Book your venue, photographer and DJ first if you want someone good because once they're gone, they're gone.
Invitations, menus, dresses, tuxedos and the like can all be chosen later. A florist can handle multiple weddings in a day just by sending out a delivery truck to deliver the flowers to the church and banquet hall. With advance notice even a baker can make several cakes for that special day.
It's your big day and it should reflect your vision and commitment to each other. But, be willing to compromise where you can and discuss ideas with friends and family. They're probably eagerly awaiting your big day as much as you and want some of their ideas incorporated, too. Remember, long after the wedding day is over you still have to deal with family and friends. Make the wedding a shared event that brings everyone closer together if you can manage it.
Be sure you hire experienced professionals to work with who are part of the solution and not part of the problem. Your photographer and DJ, if experienced, will work together as a finely oiled machine if they've done lots of weddings.
Your photographer is there to capture all the memories and happenings of your special day and is responsible for preserving those memories in a photographic format.
Your DJ will not only handle your party but will be the Master of Ceremonies for your event and will be up front entertaining. He or she can make or break your wedding. So be sure you find someone reliable, easy to work with and knowledgeable who will make your job of being the bridal couple easy.
Finally, keep in mind that, when under stress, everything looks bigger and feels more important than it probably really is. Try to keep things in perspective and maintain a calm, understanding approach to wedding planning and things will go just fine!
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Source by Sal Cioppa
