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Every bride wants their big day to go without any problems, so here are some top tips on how to organize your wedding. Whatever your budget, color or theme, these tips will help you plan your wedding.
1. Yourself
It's very easy to get swept along with all the planning and preparation of your big day, and forget about what you and your future husband really want. Do not let Mum-in-law insist upon lilies when you want roses, and if your Aunt Mildred says she will not come if your second cousin Steve is not invited (which you have not seen in twenty years), tell her it's a shame, but you understand. At the start of your plans, write down all that's important to the both of you and stick to that list like glue.
2. Your guests
Yes, so it's your special day, but you do need to think about keeping your guests happy too. Hire a kids' entertainer for the little ones, do not leave your guests standing around in the rain while they wait for you to have pictures, and make sure that those coming alone are listed next to somebody well-suited.
3. Delegation
Do not take everything upon yourself. Ask close friends, family and members of the bridal party to take care of your guests, make sure the photographer is fed and give people directions from the church to the reception. If you try to do everything yourself, you'll end up stressed and missing out on what should be a happy and relaxed day for you and your new husband.
4. Organization
Timings are vital, and should be set out well in advance. When will invitations go out? What time will the photographer be arriving? When will the seating plan be needed? Your bridesmaids and ushers can help to keep everything running smoothly if they have a clear idea of what's happening, and when.
5. Comfort
You love that huge great strapless meringue dress, but are you going to be lumbering around and worried about it falling down all day? The same goes for the impossibly slim-fitting silk size 8 number. Do not order it if you are going to be breathing in until you take it off. When it comes to your hair, dress, shoes and make-up, choose something that's 'you', because if you feel comfortable and happy you'll enjoy the day far more.
6. Cost
Your budget was £ 5k, but you've just totted everything up and it's come in at just under 20. Keep a firm eye on costs, because if the day goes down in history as being the one you had to get a second job to pay off, it simply is not worth it. And remember – there are ways of creating the perfect day without spending your life-savings.
7. Theme
Decide upon a theme, not just a color scheme, but a style – and do not be afraid to step out of the box and personalize your day. Be it a traditional, glam-rock or retro affair, it's much easier to choose the venue, suits and decorations if you have a clear focus as to how you'd like everything to look.
8. Backup plan
Envisaging a barbeque in glorious English sunshine? It does not matter if it is July, it may still rain. Be prepared for every eventuality – buy white umbrellas, hire a marquee if it's an outdoor affair, and have a pair of shoes ready in case your feet struggle with the 4-inch stilettos. Create an emergency bag with sewing kit, safety pins, pain killers, plasters and treatment for insect stings. Remember the scout's motto!
9. Relax
Walking down the aisle, making a speech and being on show all day often causes much angst for couples at their wedding. Remember that everyone wants things to go well, and will not think worse than you should trip up or forget your timing. If you're especially nervous about the first dance, pick something fun and live and get everyone else up on the dance floor, or invest in a couple of lessons to give you some confidence.
10. What's most important
Your big day is about the commitment you are making to each other. So if it rains, someone spills champagne on your dress, or you forget your vows, remember what matters the most and rise above everything else. Honestly, you'll look back and laugh.
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Source by Victoria Poolman
