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Planning a wedding is a very exciting event and most people look forward to it. Even during the happy moments of wedding planning, it can create a great deal of stress on the couple's relationship. Many couples get too involved in the wedding planning that they momentarily forget that the love they share is the most important aspect of the ceremony.
The most important advice I can give to anyone planning a wedding is to relax. If the wedding planning is causing too much trouble, then there is always city hall. It is not the dream wedding for most, but it serves the same person, to become legally married.
The first step you should take towards your wedding planning is to have a discussion with your partner. Make all the decisions together, even if one person takes a more active role in the planning. Even if you believe that your partner will be OK with the decisions you make, it never hurts to discuss it first. Every person has a different imagination about their wedding; it would be unfair for one person to insist on having the wedding of their dream.
The next step you should take is to decide whether or not to hire a wedding planner. If you decide against it, then you need to buy a note book. You need to take a while to make contractual decisions about your wedding. You should take a month to make decide on the number of guests, type of wedding, place of wedding, guest list etc. Give yourself a time frame or else you will find yourself trying to get it done all at once. Keep in mind that many wedding professionals are booked solid for several months, so you may want to hire your professionals before you complete any other wedding planning activity.
It is important to take the wedding planning in strides, a little at a time. Create a timetable and only spend a couple hours per day. Balance the wedding with other personal activities such as going out and having fun. Do not forget the reason you are getting married to begin with is to be together, do not put a lot of stress on the relationship by focusing too much on wedding plans.
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Source by Niki Camus
