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Right from the moment you get engaged people start poring in their advices. Some definitely mean well and good but some advices may downright ruin your wedding. There might be many people who will give you loads of advice but would not be around when you actually need them. Learn to differentiate between them and people who actually mean well.
Let me just highlight a few bad advices that might turn up on your plate as I have seen them landing up with my cousins and friends.
The worst wedding advice ever will be to have a grand traditional wedding without having any worry about money. After all, you two will be able to repay all debts with time! That is the worst advice. Do not ever make the mistake of listening to it. Starting your new life on debt is not at a good idea. Of course it is your special day but that does not mean you should go overboard and ruin all your financial plans on the first day of your married life and live the rest paying the huge bills.
Another bad advice comes from well meaning friends and relatives regarding wedding planning tips. Many people consider other weddings as a chance of fulfilling their own desires and dreams. That should not be the case. It is your wedding day and you should plan it the way you two want, and not according to what your best friend, your sister or even your mom wants.
Wedding involves lots of costs and most of us try to plan a wedding that will be elegant, beautiful and yet would not make us poorer. Another of the worst wedding advice was given to my friend by her cousin. She was asked to leave out the RSVP card from her wedding cards to save money. The guests were asked to log into a particular website which was specially created and to leave their answers on the RSVP page there. Although the idea appeared fine at first, but only four people ended up logging into the site and in the end my friend had to call all her guests personally to ensure they were coming. It wasted lots of time and created unnecessary nuisance. Whatever you do do not leave out the RSVP card, it is essential.
Another of the worst advice is again related to wedding planning tips and this came at my best friends' wedding. Her brother thought it would be a good idea to randomly select who sits with what; This way everyone would get a chance to meet new people. But this turned out to be a major disaster. Although there were one or two new couples who emerged from this arrangement but maximum people were not happy, many got stuck with people they did not like. It is best to carefully arrange the way people sit, it helps to keep them all happy and in friendly atmosphere.
All said and done, it is your wedding and you have the right to be happy and relaxed, without worrying at all. Just enjoy your day and if you are unfortunate enough to receive the worst wedding advice ever just forget it and keep smiling.
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Source by Fiona Monroe
