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The wedding ceremony gives the couple getting married the opportunity to verbally express their deep feelings for each other. At some point during the ceremony (usually before the exchange of the rings), the minister or officiant will allow the couple to address each other directly. This can be a prepared or impromptu speech. The speaking of personal marriage vows is a very emotional aspect of the ceremony. It probably is best to have a speech or outline of what you wish to say, so that you do not lose your train of thought.

Even though personal marriage vows are relatively short speeches, there are plenty of components which combine the vows. I am going to use the bride's vows as an example. The bride may begin her vows by reminding the groom about how they first met. The bride could tell the groom what first attracted her to him. She may have been turned on by either his smile or politeness. The bride may want to talk about their first few dates. She may bring up a movie or a play that she and the groom went to see. The bride may joyfully recall that romantic restaurant date while visiting a resort town.

The bride will eventually reveal the ways in which the groom's love changed her life for the better. The groom may have helped the bride to overcome past heartbreak, loneliness, and sadness. The bride may tell the groom that because of him she learned how to love and trust again; that her faith in being in a committed relationship has been restored. The bride may conclude her speech towards the groom by reciting some traditional wedding vows. She may say, "I promise to be your faithful wife, to love and cherish you always, in good times and bad, for richer or poorer, in sickness and in health, from this day forward."

There is no exact way to prepare personal marriage vows. All personalized vows are special and unique. The key thing regarding vows is that both people getting married speak straight from the heart. There is no shame in becoming emotional; that is to be expected. The vows may also include promises toward any child (ren), whether biological or step.

It is entirely optional while a couple chooses to say personal vows to each other during the wedding ceremony. It certainly is not easy to publicly express your innermost feelings to the one that you love deeply. However, if you do go through with saying a heartfelt statement, you will likely be glad that you did.

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Source by Arthur Welch