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Men always seem to have the wrong idea. They generally believe that a girl will just stick around and the thought of marriage is never really something that crosses their mind. Men are deathly fearful of commitment, and so subconsciously block it out. If you are tired of staying in idle with your guy and just living day to day as boyfriend and girlfriend, and you want to take it to the next level. Then follow these tips and you will be on your way to holy matrimony.

Talk Of Friends Who Have Wed-

Do you have any friends who are married? How long did it take them to tie the knot? Probably a lot less time, then the time you've been together with your man. Do not be afraid to mention this to your boyfriend and illustrate the benefits that your married friends enjoy together.

Describe Your Expectations For The Wedding-

Make the thought of marriage sound more real, and put the possibility out there by giving your boyfriend a detailed description of the wedding. Answer these questions … Where is it? Who 'invited? When do you plan on it to happen? How do you plan to put everything together to make it unforgettable? Is there a theme? Will you hire a pianest to play in the ceremony?

Make Him See The Moment's Right-

Make sure that he feels comfortable and ready to tie the knot. Do not force the issue on him. Men hate being pushed into anything, and it will actually cause him to be push away from you. Make it clear you want to proceed forward without being pushy.

Do Not Talk About Post Marriage Matters-

Do not in anyway talk about anything that comes after the wedding. Mortgage, children, wills, postnuptuals, or anything in that regard. Keep focused on the present and do not let his mind wander away from right now.

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Source by Luther Lyons