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It is a great honor to be asked to be the best man. It means that out of all the groom's friends, you are the one that he has given the greatest responsibility to. This responsibility is an important one that most best men forget at first, the one that defines your duty, the most nerve-wrecking part of the wedding day for you: the speech. For it is the tradition and duty of the best man to deliver a heart-felt speech at the wedding reception in front of all the wedding guests.
However, this speech can prove to be extremely difficult to construct and even more difficult to deliver. The best man needs to captivate the moment of the wedding and the couple's love without ruining it. The best man does not want to be remembered as the man who talked about the groom's drinking habits or the man who incidentally claimed that the bride does not normally look beautiful.
However, the best man may realize that there are even more things that could go wrong. What if, for example, the best man drops the glass of champagne while giving the speech? What if the best man writes the most excellent speech then sentences it when it comes times to deliver it? How does the best man write the perfect speech in the first place? How does the best man fill that all so important speech with sincere comments and thoughts without becoming too sentimental? What does the best man say to a friend without embarrassing the groom or oneself? What if the best man slips up? What if you, the best man, can not think of anything to say? Well, here are a few ideas for Best Man Speeches that can be broken apart and reshaped to fit together for the perfect best man speech for your wedding. With just a little memorizing, the best man can deliver a perfect speech with confidence and flare. There is nothing to worry about if you are prepared. So research, research, research.
Speech 1:
On this day that two of my greatest friends begin their lives together, I can not help but thinking about the game I watched the other day – My team won by the way– but I was thinking that it took more than one person to win that game. The offensive and the defense had to work together to form the perfect team. Marriage, in my opinion, is like that game. One person can not make a marriage work … it takes two. So may you two always work on the same team and never against one another. May your marriage be full of wins, never losses, and all the happiness in the world. Congratulations!
Speech 2:
Ladies and Gentlemen– I would like you to join me in wailing Jerold and Harriet a wonderful life together. I've known Jerold for the past 5 years. When I first met him, he told me that he would never get married. Then three years ago, he met Harriet, and I do not know what Harriet did, but his opinion of marriage has changed. It may have something to do with the fact that I have never seen Jerold happier than he has been these last three years. Harriet you have really thought out the best qualities in him. May you both continue to bring out the best in each other and love each other for the rest of your lives. Cheers!
Speech 3:
What advice do you give to the man who just became your brother-in-law? Well here are some of the answers I came up with: Flowers are not just for Valentine's Day or your anniversary. Give flowers for it being Monday. Give all types of flowers, but remember roses work the best. Also remember to cook dinner every time in a while but always wash the dishes. Remember that the woman is always right … even when she's wrong. Remember the living room carpet should be changed every two years and diamonds make the best gifts. And do not forget to love each other. Thanks sis for all your help with this speech … may your lives be filled with happiness. Congratulations!
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Source by Chris Dreyer
