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Years ago when I was in my teens, I had this life long ambition of a perfect romantic life, devoid of problems, full of bliss. Can that be possible, you ask? But as the years rolled by and boys became men, I got to know that my dreams can either be dreams and remain in the background without me waking up or I can work toward making that dream a reality by virtue of hard work. My search to make my childhood dream marriage a true story led me to wait a while looking at the different prospects before me. Yet I was not in much of a hurry to tie the knot, as a mistake can spell doom.
My search opened my eyes to the possessions of what my childhood dreams carried and the fact that I can have that perfect, perfect, perfect romantic bliss that I longed for as a child. Yes if you follow the simple, but difficult steps that I will outline later on then you are bound to have that near perfect, if not perfect marriage, and you will be the happier for it.
Moreover it should be noted that 'what works for me will equally work for you'. You only need to put your mind to it. But never forget to put your trust in no man but God alone and He alone you should trust, commit all the would be's and may be of the throne of the most high God.
Courtship is the major area that I found as the link for happiness in my marital life. During courtship you find out a lot of things about your partner and if you are really keen on keeping that relationship strong. you work on the things you noticed in the life. During courtship, attitudes are exposed, hidden habits come out. Courtship opens our dirty linen to public gaze.
Without courtship I would not be able to find that joy that I craved for in my teens for marriage. The principles me and my intended then laid down served as our guiding light towards building a lasting and harmonious marital life that we are proud to flaunt everywhere we go. Proudly I must say that my courtship years nearly made my dreams as I fumbled around with my spouse dreaming romance out of fantasy island. But the day the truth of where we are heading and what we are planning hit us we sat down and drew a line between myth and reality. Nothing works better than a heart to heart discussion between you and your intended. It beats all the books in this world, and that was the secret that we found ourselves faced with as we were heading for the rocks.
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Source by Frederick Morka
