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If you've been chosen to give a speech at a friend or loved one's wedding, then congratulations. You should feel honored. But you should also realize that with this honor comes, well, tremendous responsibility. And do not even start to complain about having to put the work in-do you know how much time and money a wedding can eat? Be grateful you're not footing the bill, or stuffed into a frilled aquamarine bridesmaid's dress. If you are, be grateful it's not orange.

While writing speeches for wedding is much easier than throwing a wedding, that's for sure, but that does not mean you should not take it seriously. Wedding speeches are an important part of any reception. Speeches for wedding are spoken gifts; it is provided to be your moment to speak of your love and support for the couple.

Do not make the mistake of standing up in front of everyone's relatives and giving a spirited account of that one time when you and the groom finished off a handle of vodka and then went skinny dipping in the neighbor's pool. That's way too much imagery and history in one telling – and no one needs to be privy to those details, least of all the bride's parents. And be nice! This is a wedding, not a roast. Finally, make sure that you mean whatever you say. Even if it's funny, no one will be impressed if it's insincere.

If you're still nervous about writing speeches for wedding, do not freak out. Just do some research. See what you can find at the library, or just search online for tips and guides. Some of the information online is tailor to role-specific speeches for wedding (for example, the classic Best Man Speech workbook ). Whatever you do, do not freak out. Just do your homework and you'll be golden.

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Source by Betty Seymore